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About Bestest Friend Again...
I know i wrote before..and i wanna thank you for the advice..it helped..
the thing is.. yeh she did see me as mr. perfect sort of thing..but now well since valentines day she started going out with this guy which kind of made things weired..dont know how to explain really...
I know that she is only a friend...but i never want anything to come between us..she is 1 in a million and so so so special..i wouldnt risk our friendship for anything in this world...n if i knew what i did on valentines would of come out like this then i never would have done it..but i cant take it back so im trying to make the future better i guess...
I am not only dissapointed about that but she is right, i wasnt like some boys that will cheat on girls...i would treat them with respect never mess around or anything...and by doing this made me think...maybe i am just like the rest...i am dissapointed with myself...
Sanj
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I understand. But the thing you have to remember is that in some respects, you always WILL be like the others. Men tend to be very different to women and the majority view the world in a different way when it comes to relationships and sex. But you are WAY above the rest of them because you realise the way that women should be treated and that is exactly what will set you apart from all the others as you get older.
It may take some time for her to come around but at the end of the day, you made a mistake and at 14, you're allowed to. If we don't make mistakes, how can we learn to put things right when they go wrong or learn what hurts us or the people around us?
Given your feelings for her, it's bound to make you feel a little weird when she starts seeing someone else. Who knows what will happen in the future though? Maybe you will get together at some point. You seem like a really nice guy so I sincerely hope so.
The best thing you can do right now is to tell her what you've told me. That you regret what happened because of how it has alienated her and that she's very important to you so you don't want your friendship to be affected by this.
Most of all, you need to forgive yourself. You made a mistake and as time goes on, you'll make plenty more of them. As long as you learn something from them, mistakes are never 100% bad.
Don't worry about your friend. She'll come around in time.
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