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okay so im a junior (16) and he is a senior (17) at my school. okay so we work together. and when we do we talk and flirt all the time. and its fun. and i really like him. weve hung out a couple times. but not alone. except one time my friend from work wanted to hook me up with her best friend and so we (me her, and the guy i like but not with her friend yet..) all went after work out to eat and to walmart and just acted stupid. and then she was like were going to go see her friend. and i was like okay fine and the guy i like was like okay im going to go (we were in two spereate cars him in one, me and my friend in the otehr) and i was like nooo you cant because then i wont know anyone but nicole so he was like okay then ride with me. and it was like a 45 minutes drive tehre and we talked the whole time just about everything! then we were about there and i got kind of nervous i mean ive never just randomly met someone with the intentions of maybe dating. so i was like i dont want to do this this will be ackward so he was like okay so we can pretend we are dating! of course i was like hell yeah right!but anways we got there and like 5 minutes later we left and talked the whole car ride home and he dropped me off and that was it. so the point of my telling all this is wondering if he is just a friend or if there is anyway that he might like me? also i was wondering because he hardley ever talks to me at school and he is in one of my classes(but he is always talking to his best friend) does that mean he doesnt like me at all or are we just work friends?! also how do you get over the fact that he may not be physically attractive? but im extemley physically attracted to him. i know that was long and i am sorry but if there is any advice that you can give me that would be so great!!!
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From what you have said, it is completely possible that he does like you as more than a friend BUT every guy is different. Problem being that while one guy may act like this when he likes a girl in a romantic sense, another guy may treat all his girl mates like this.
The situation at school is a little weird. Regardless of whether he thought of you in a prospective-girlfriend sense or a normal friend sense, it seems a little weird that he hardly ever speaks to you in school. Perhaps there's a reason he avoids you here but I really couldn't say what that might be.
The fact that you don't feel he is physically attractive really isn't anything. Although physical attraction is good, someone doesn't need to be physically attractive to attract someone, if you see what I mean. What I'm saying is, if you are really a good enough person to see past looks, then that's a very positive thing, as there are far too many people out there who can't see past a less attractive face.
I think what you really need to do is to speak to him about this. Sit him down and explain to him that although you do think of his as a great work friend, lately you've been having some feelings for him but you don't want to jeapordise your friendship. Then ask him if there's any chance he feels the same way and if so, did he fancy doing something sometime. You seem like a very nice person and I can't imagine why he should say no so it's got to be worth a try!
Good luck!
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