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something so silly ive done
Ok this is the most stupid thing i have ever done!!! ok well this guy was like can you hook me up with one of your friends but i actually don't want to because none of my friends like him so i thought ahh lets make him happy seeing hes done so many favours for me and my bf.so i was thick and i made a hotmail account and i pretended to be my friend which was actually someone off my friends myspace. And its like now hes saying ova msn i really like you ALOT nd he wants to meet this person.Sometimes i wish i never played silly games!!!! he now wants her number and its like ahh i don't have a number! What shall i do now someone please help because i carried it along like its so real and its not and its like maybe i could try and get one of my real friends to like him but they don't and like basically he wants to meet me,her another guy and himself this weekend and how can i when shes not real.SOMEONE HELP PLEASE AND FAST I NEED OPTIONS ON WHAT TO DO NOW!!! its because i like him and i needed to know what he thought off me how silly can i get im 16/female
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Oh my goodness!!!!!
Right, basically you have two options here and you need to decide which one you would rather take.
1) You tell the truth. Ultimately the best option to choose but having been to school and experienced how cruel people can be when they find out this sort of thing has happened, I can understand if it's not really what you might call a viable option.
2) Lie. I don't want to endorse lying. After all, a lot of trouble gets caused over this sort of thing and you really don't want to end up in a worse situation. That being said, there might be a way to resolve this without you actually having to lie or getting into more trouble. BUT, you will have to cope with the consequences on your conscience. Basically, as long as he doesn't know this person you're pretending to be, you need to stop talking to him OR tell him you have a boyfriend. Personally, I would recommend the first, as, although it would be painful for the guy in question, it leaves no room for any form of suspicion to end up in your direction. Never visit the hotmail account again, if you can help it, as it may be possible to track e-mails and see if they have been read. After all, who knows what might have happened if this person was to disappear for now?
If this is not an option either, for whatever reason, you could pretend that she has a boyfriend. Problem being this might open up to a lot of other questions.
What I want to stress to you, however, is that the second may be the favourable option in the short term but you do need to take into account anything that it may lead to before taking such action.
Either way, I REALLY hope you manage to work this one out okay. Good luck!
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i think you should be honest er never talk to him again..i mean what else can you do?? go for the honest thing, yeah it'll disappoint him but how else will you get around it??
-hope that helped!♥
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