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Girl With A Confused Emotion
I've read some of the advice you have given to other people, I hoping maybe you could help me out. I'm a 14 years old girl. This might be a typical problem but I think I have fallen for the wrong person. The boy I like is totally the opposite of me. I hardly talk to him compare to all my friends. I hear so much about him although I feel like I don't know him. I've liked him for over a year now. I know he is not worth it but it's hard to change my feelings towards him. All my friends tell me to get over him and I know they're right but like I said before it's really hard. Some day's I feel like going up to him and tell him how I feel but I’m to shy to I guess. I don't know whether to tell him or not because the way he would react, he might react as if I never existed or he might react a totally different way I don't know. What do you think I should do? Do you think I’m wasting my time liking this boy?
*CandY*
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ok..umm i sorta been in a similar situation with a girl obviously :)
i really really really liked this girl and the whole thing lasted about 2 years...the truth is..1000 of people could yell at you to get over him because he is not right for you or whateva..but it is not jus gonna suddenly happen. i think the only realy way that you are going to get over him is with time...sounds stupid i know...i thought the same thing when i liked this girl...i have liked the person 4 this long and i need more time..i know it sounds really stupid but its the truth...well about the only way i know..
I also know exactly how you feel when you say you dont know if you should tell him or not because you have no idea how he will react, he can be ok with it and be normal with you but there is also a risk he can completly shut you out of your life. I have recently learnt that you are only goin to live once..n i dont want to look bak in a few weeks..months or years saying gosh i wish i did this..or tried that.. 4 that reason i always tell some one how i fell about them etc
i know its a risk you may not want to take..but it could end up working in your favour, if you tell him how you feel it could go two ways.. he either likes you bak..or he doesnt..
if he likes you back well then you are practically going out...if not it could help you see ok he doesnt like me back time to start looking for someone new..it changes how u think completly.. recently i started to like my bestest friend...n because we r so close i told her exactly how i feel..but about a few weeks ago she told me she didnt feel the same way n she felt more comfortable as friends..and that made me go out lookin for someone new.. "exploring my options". n well i think i just might have found someone..
try not to be shy..whenever i feel nervous about something, think of it as being "now or never" and just go for it.
most of all..be yourself let him like you for who you are or not at all. people should be able to like you for who you are not for what they want you to be.
best of luck with it all
let me know if you need anything else...or email me:
sanjeev_sangar@hotmail.com (also my msn add)
hope ive helped
sanj
p.s sorry for it being so long
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