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Should i stop waiting????
okay...this is kind of a looong story, but i need help..so bare with me...??? Please!?? i met this guy almost 2 years ago now. we became really close. and now we're best friends. but soon after we met...he told me he was falling for me...and honestly, i was too. he lives in montgomery county, i live in howard county. only about 30-45 minutes away. we're sooo attached to one another that...he gets hurt when i go after another guy and i get hurt when he goes after another girl. he is my first love. and no matter what i do...i try and try to move on but i cant. i'm starting to get confused by him...he gets hurt, so do i...he's in love with me, i'm in love with him. yet, when i asked him why can't he just ask me out, or what he would do if i asked him out...he gets quiet and says "i dont know..." and then it gets awwkward. He claims he wouldnt do a long distance relationship again...so i thought that meant something to me, and he said one county isnt long distance... but its like he's pushing me away, so it feels like it is and thats part of the reason he doesnt want to be with me.i feel as if i spill my heart out and he just doesnt care...but no matter what i do...i cant moove on, knowing that he loves me, treats me right, makes me smile, and he knows EVERY flaw with me, yet doesnt judge me at all...i am with another guy right now. he knows. and he acts like he's fine with it. but lately he's just not the same with me...he hasnt been even before i started going out with him. i dont know if i should break up with the guy because i've done it in the past, and he hasnt done anything about it. its like he wants me when he cant have me. i love him...i'm not tossing around the word love either...its real...not a joke at all...and i'm just starting to worry...he confuses me sooo much. yet i dont want to move on...yet, im starting to feel like i might have to...its tearing me apart.
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Well you're in a bit of a bind here huh?
I think that you should find out why your best friend of 2 years dosen't want to be with you, or why he won't be with you or you could just tell him why you want to be with him, and how you feel about all of this. As for your current bf, I think you should find out why hes been so weird.
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