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Dont know what to do
Hey.Im 15 and i like this girl..i told her how i felt and she said she couldnt really see us like bf and gf now because shes in a relationship and plus she doesnt want to screw up our great friendship...now i have been hearing from my friend who is also friends with her how she is having sex with this kid and that she is in "love" with him but he doesnt live in our town he lives like 45 minutes away and he has dropped outta school and is only 17! so i dont see why this kid is so great and im not for her..i got her a card for valentines day but didnt get a chance to give it to her and i think it will change something but i dont know. I love this girl to death but just want to tell her that i know what she is doing but i dont want my friend that told me to get mad at me and i dont want her to get mad at him. we are in hs so i kno that sex is commin but not for like 15 year olds especially with two straight bf she has done this and not told me. idk what to do please help
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Aw. :[
Well, there must be something special about this kid, although he seems like a failure in life - he must be doing some good otherwise she wouldn't be with him. She may just not want to screw up your relationship, that's how I am with all of my guy friends, I can't ever see them as boyfriends, so I just like them as friends -- all equally. Sex shouldn't be coming ANYTIME soon for 15 year olds, so I completely disagree with that. I mean, why try with this chick if she's 15 having sex with a 17 year old drop out? I mean, you seem so much better then that. & You definitely deserve better then that.
If I were you, I'd just let "nature run it's course." You can't talk her out of the relationship with her boyfriend, if she doesn't like you in that way. Just try & spend more time with her, compliment her. & Just do all those things that boys do. :] You should give her the card, she'll like it. It's something sweet & you never knowww, she might be super happy that you gave it to her.
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