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What is the first time like?
I am just wondering but what does your first time actually feel like cause i have made the decision to have sex but i want the facts.
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For a start, I am going to patronise you by asking how old you are. You sound fairly clued up, and it's good that you're getting the facts, but if you're worrying about how it feels, you might not be quite ready. Have you discussed it fully with your boyfriend? Of course he must understand that he needs to wear a condom(I'm sure he does).
But to get to your question, it varies from woman to woman. All vaginas get more flexible with use-thus a virgin has a smaller and tighter hole than an experienced and sexually active woman(though vaginas still vary in size from woman to woman). I myself had a considerable amount of pain and rubbing, but no blood since my hymen was already torn(the hymen is the thin, stetchy "tarpaulin" which covers the vagina and which can easily be torn during non-sexual activites such as horseriding). If you're in pain, then ask him to slow down or even stop, then go at it again. You're unlikely to remember your first time as one of sexual ecstacy(that comes-excuse the pun-with practice) but it should be a good bonding experience with your boyfriend.
Good luck, and message me again if you need.
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