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Hey AJ!
I seriously need help.... BADLY! I think I'm falling for my friend. Only bad thing is that he's a senior so he's graduating this year and he doesn't know where he's going for college yet (maybe somewhere far away!!! ahhh). Do you think I should try to start something between us or just let my feelings pass? I also don't know if I want to risk his friendship. Anyways, thanks for reading this. Luv ya, buddy.
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Well, you both are friends with each other. so as to "risking your friendship", that shouldn't be too much of a problem. If you're afraid that by asking him, and him saying no, that he won't want to hang out with you anymore, then he prolly wasn't the best guy to begin with. Worst-case scenario is that he'll probably just smile and try and let u down easy. If you let him know that him hanging out with you afterwards WON'T be awkward, then your friendship with him is safe. It could make it stronger.
In my personal opinion, I'd say totally go for the chance to be with him. A quote i found a day ago; "We have only this moment, sparkling like a star in our hand... and melting like a snowflake. Let us use it before it is too late."
~ Marie Beyon Ray ~
Some people might say "wait, since he's leaving it's not worth it", but you have to ask yourself; "Do you really like him, and do you really want to be with him"? Some of the best things that can happen, can happen now, not later. Why would anyone want to wait to be happy later, when you could be happy now.
yes, he is leaving for college, and that will present a painful departing, whether you're friends or more. But take the chance to live till then, don't pass up something great just because you were afraid of the end. Weird simile, i know, but would you not watch "old yellar" just because you know the dog will die in the end?
And thank you for actually asking me this directly. If you still need help, or someting wasn't too clear, just ask again =)
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