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I've been so confused lately. okay this guy broke up with me & im not over him nearly, i know i should cause it was like in augest but im always going to love him... and hes got a girlfriend so yeah, i just deal with it. And my best friend guy now likes me, and i think i like him to. I've gone out with him beofre and all... but im not sure, cause my friend is trying to get over him. And you know how they'll say "no dont worry about me go out with him" & that stuff...idn if i can do that to her. And my other best friend has something for him but like were best friends and i think i like him a little but im not sure. and i fouind out my other friend likes the guy who im not over & shes so perfect & i just want her to stay away from him even though i have no controll over that... but i was stupid & went out with the guy she liked before & i feel like its pay back kinda. im so sorry this is confusing it just all hit me in a couple days. thank you so much ♥
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Sunday January 29 2006, 8:40 pm: I know that it's difficult to get over someone so try dating some one new. Dating your best guy friend wouldn't be such a good idea because a friend of yours is trying to get over him but that shouldn't stop you but because your other friend likes him. Sure friends say "I don't care if you go out with him. I don't even like him anymore." That is a lie and deep down inside, they care but they don't want to admit it. The girl that likes your ex, you really can't do anything about it. If she likes him, then leave it that way. You can't do anything to make her stay away from him and even if you did, that would be really selfish. You're not stupid for going out with a guy she liked and I also don't think it's pay back time. You can't help who you like and you shouldn't have to. The best thing you should do is get over this guy. Keep trying. It might take you a long time, but who cares. Go out with new guys and flirt & just hang out. Meet new people and do things that will get your mind off him. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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