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why do you think i cant get over him?
Usually i'm really good at giving advice. but this time it's been quite hard to deal with. i was in love with peter when he was a junior and i was a sophomore. i was too shy to talk to him, but he was just soo hot. but he moved away to washington state(and i live in illinois) when he was a senior and i forgot about him and i found him on myspace. then we started talking and it grew stronger and we talked on the phone every night and we like fell in love.. maybe. then he decided to move back here mainly so we could be together. we rushed into things and it didnt work out at all. on and off. now we're officially done and we havent really talked in a month or so.
i know id ont need him because he'll be 19 and he doesnt plan on going to college or taking classes, he constantly lied, and we never went out-to eat or movies-or nething. it was such a wasteful relationship.
but i cant seem to stop thinking about him lately. love songs or whatnot. i see him at the store and we do the 'hi' but thats bout it. ive seen him with a girl and i got pretty pissed. i dont think they're dating, but this girl is the most annoying girl in the world-so im not jealous of her-but i might be jealous that she gets to at least be with him. but why would i care if he's not even that great of a person??
sorry so long!
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You only care because you're attached to him. Even with all you know about him, in your mind you still think of when you were younger and lusted after him constantly. That's normal. Associating the songs with him is normal too. When you find someone else--and you will--you will associate these songs with that person. But you may still think fondly of Peter. That's not bad, as long as you realize that's it's just a fond memory--that was who you were and this is who you are now. You're not actually a different person, but you're at a different stage in your life. You seem to have a lot of built up feelings about him and I know a wonderful method for dealing with this. Get a spiral notebook and a pen, and write everything that's in your mind. Don't worry about grammar or spelling or making sense. Just write everything as you think it, and keep going until you feel better. It's also helps to cry, if you feel the need. This way you clear your mind and take out all your frustrations in a positive way, and also gives you time to think about the situation so you can figure out a solution.
Good luck,
Tasuki
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