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In early dec. my school had a formal dance. i asked this kid who I kind of liked at the time, but he said no. just flat out no. I was DEVASTATED. So, this month a few weeks ago, i met this new kid who lives in another town (on myspace, but Ive done a play with him so I know hes a real person and really hot) and he sent me messages telling me how BEAUTIFUL i am and that he loved me, etc. etc. Then he gave me his SN. After only a few days of talking he BLOCKED me on AIM, how weird. and gave me a lame excuse that his comp. was broken but I saw his sn on my other sn. I feel rejected, by BOTH these boys and Im 14 and never had a boyfriend or even come CLOSE to it. Please help someone! i feel so bad and rejected. Does anyone know how to cope with this?
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You're letting these guys get to you wayyyy too much. Why do you let these kids that you hardly even know and that aren't even that important dictate your emotions? You're worth a lot more than that. You need to realize your self worth and then guys will start liking you more. Being easily shaken up by a few stupid guys shows you don't exactly have the most self confidence in the world, and a many guys like girls with a lot of self confidence.
Ask yourself this. Would you rather go to the formal with this guy that was just humoring you and stringing you along rather than just being up front with you about not liking you? No, because then it would hurt 10x more when he finally did tell you. Or that other guy... do you really want to be friends with some two faced liar who is too cowardly to just directly tell you the truth instead of block you? No, two faced liars do not make good friends OR boyfriends. When a good guy to date comes along, he won't be a jerk like that. Just wait it out a little longer! Good luck.
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