Question Posted Wednesday January 25 2006, 9:28 pm
aight so sean, there's this girl that likes me. well, actually there's 5 . let's start with girl 1. girl 1 rrrrrreeeeeeaaaallllllly likes me, and the thing is... since i didn't know noone else liked me... i told her i liked her back. a lot. and i've been saying stuff liike aaaggghhh i miss you and i wanna be with you. but i don't like her and i don't really wanna get to know her cuz she's kinda weird and chubby and not my type at all. girl 2, i just hung out with and she likes me... i don't know if i like her but i'm having strange feelings for her. and since i "hung out" with her, i feel really guilty for doing that to girl 1 although i don't like her. girls 3 and 4 both like me but girl 3 likes my best friend, and girls 3 and 4 are best friends and kinda my best friends too... girl 5 likes me but i don't know if anything would ever happen, so umm scratch that. but, whenever i find out that a girl likes me, i freak out and i'm like oohhh i like you too... just because i don't wanna deny them and say like, i don't like you at all!!! i just can't live with that guilt. what the hell do i do?????
My advice is just to go with your gut feeling on this one, it sounds like your more partial to girl 2 then the rest with the whole strange feelings thing, plus its not a good idea to date your best friends, trust me i've learned from experience and nothing good comes out of it.
While it is best to date someone you have a good connection with, you don't want to be too close before the relationship actually begins. This can cause for much un needed drama.
But in any case trust your own decison in this one, Think long and hard about what you truly want.
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