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ex boyfriend..
hi. okay well..i had a boyfriend for a little over nine months. and we got so close we were really in love i think. i feel like that i was in love at least. but then i don't know..something happened. and he kind of treated me wrong a little i guess and i don't know things fell apart because he got a new friend & he like influenced him or something who know..guys are weird. so then he broke up with me. but of course i still love him. i always will he was my first love. but now his friend is telling me that he likes me again & he's sort of acting like it. but for some reason, i'm so of scared. because i know i want to say yes to him..but in a way i'm not sure if i should. i want to move on in a way but i miss him so much. and like i'm scared it's going to be akward with us or something because it's been like almost four months i guess since we've been apart. but i don't know. i know i shouldn't worry about this now because i'm not even sure that we're even going to get back together. i don't know. maybe there's no way you can help but should i get worried? or should i just wait it out until something actually happens? i'm just confused. so please help if you can..<3 megan
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hey! ok, well heres what i think ...the only reason he broke up with you is most likely due to his "friend" that is a bad influence on him. His friend must have done or said something to make your man(i mean ex) want to break up with you and be single...im not saying that his friend told him to leave you or anything like that...im just saying that maybe seeing his friend living the "single" life or always wanting to hang out with your man gave your man a different outlook on things...maybe for the worst. If i were in your shoes, I would give this guy another shot...but not without letting him know how his actions have made you feel first! Let him know that you're angry and upset. Then, and only if you feel you are ready(because if you just give it time, you WILL get over him and move on happily), then you can give it another shot. But, first, give yourself some time to let him sulk in his own misery without you. Let him know how he made you feel...and then decide what your best move will be.
Well, hope i helped!! If you need anything else, feel free to get in touch with me!! Take care hun.
Love,
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