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a guy??
ha..well i feel wired doing this but..theres this guy in my on class...hes a grade ahead of me..but i like him so so so much!!.. everytime i see him i get butter flys!..my friend told him i liked him but he didnt respond..and i just wanna stop likeing him because i know ill never get to go out with him..but everything and everyone reminds me of him!!..ahh ineed help idk wat to do??
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my advice would be if you wanna forget about him find another boy you like better. you might think nothing can replace him at first but trust me sooner or later someone else who you find attractive will come along. remember the world has no shortage of attractive people but its who you are and what's inside you that makes the difference. plus your young have fun with life and don't take anything to seriously.
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good advice from KYgirl! Absolutely get into the outskirts of his "group". Find a chatty source to tell you more about him and others in the group. Don't give out your hand too early in this game. Slow and steady wins the race. Be fun to be around, everyone likes to hang with fun people. And never, NEVER seem desperate or dopey eyed when talking to him. Be his equal even when you don't know him well yet. You will gain his respect sooner if he knows you are on the same level. "Fake it til you make it". Let me know how it goes!
Dear Susie
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if you really want a shot with him, try hanging out with him -- get him to like you by getting to know you. go to the same parties, make yourself noticable. speak up in the class you have together, make friends with some of his friends, make it so you occasionally bump into him. just dont stalk him haha. if it doesnt go anywhere, find someone else to occupy your thoughts and time. i promise theres a hundred guys under your nose...just go out with your girlfriends and find them!
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