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Forgive and Forget?
Today, I found out that my freind told this girl that I don't really know all this stuff. Here it is, my best freind(Jane) told this girl (Jess) that she didn't want this one boy (matt) to like me. See, Jess and Matt used to go out. And since they broke up I have been flirting with him a lot and he has been flirting back. We have a great connection and this Friday we are going ice skating together. Well, my freind Jane, and other freinds are coming and Matt is bringing his freinds. So, Jane told Jess to go prob. so I wouldn't flirt wiht Matt so much. But she also said that she didn't want Matt to like me and that I always flirt with him and he flirts wiht me. AND I guess in one class she had to tell her something that was very important and secretive.. something that is about me. Now I'm mad at her and not talking to her. I don't want to see her and I just want to be mad for awhile and errr. I think Jane has told other people about me too and she's my best freind and I told her everything and really trusted her. How should I act with her? What should I say\? How long should I be mad? Is this my fault? PLease answer... 5s are high!
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ok well first of all maybe jane has feeling for matt or something. that is the only reason i can think of i mean why would she be upset for you liking him when shes your best friend. yea so i think you should have a talk with her. i mean im sorry but if she likes him and you two are really close i dont think its nice to flirt with him.
but if she doesnt like him than i think its ok to flirt with this guy. i mean ok guys get over girls and you cant control how you feel. and if this girl is really your best friend she wouldnt tell you who you can and cant flirt with. you are your own boss.
i think you should just talk to you friend and see whats going on. maybe it was a miscommunication. that happens to me a lot
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Maybe Jane still has feelings for Matt. Ask her if she does. Tell her that you value the friendship that the two of you have and that you were disapointed that she was telling other people about your personal life. If she says she is sorry then just let it go. I don't think you should stay mad very long, this sounds like something that will just blow over if you talk to her about it. If you feel like you can't trust her just be careful with what you say around her for awhile.
Love
Kate
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