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Dry sex or dry humping
Me and my boyfriend engaged in "dry sex" yesturday. I had my underwear and some tight shorts on, and he had his boxers on. I would say it was 3 thin layers of clothing. He did ejaculate and I noticed that there was a wet spot on my shorts around the top of my private area, I am not sure if it went through my underwear or not, but my underwear was also wet, but that was probably my stuff. I am really scared that I will get pregnant. I will get my period approximately around Feb 9 so that is where I stand. I am really worried, what can I do?
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It's unlikely that you will get pregnant. Since you are engaging in sexual activities and worried about being pregnant, I recommend you get on the pill. It has a lot of benefits, including lighter and predictable periods, less cramps, and peace of mind when you engage in such activities.
If you don't think you can handle daily pills, they also have patches and a vaginal insert called the ring.
You may also need to be concerned about STDs. You don't have to have sex to get them. Some - like HPV and herpes - transmit through skin to skin contact. So wearing clothing will help, but hand jobs can still transmit them. But if you have fluid transmission, your more likely to transmit STDs like gonorrhea than to get pregnant. Since most STDs have very high percentages of carriers (people with the disease but no symptoms), you should start getting STD panels with your annual exam (pap smear).
If worrying about getting pregnant causes you significant distress or disrupts your routine, it may be a sign to back off for a while till you get things sorted out and figure out how your going to avoid this form of stress (going on the pill or modifying your sexual activities are good places to start thinking about it).
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