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here i go again .. =/
okayy so i've liked this kid for SOO long .. i posted before .. the one who i've liked for months and he says he wants to be with me but never does anything.
so last night me and him hung out. me and my friend dennie had him and a guy named justin over. they came over on they're snow mobiles and we hung out. well dennie and justin hooked up, then she left. and all me and cody did was hold hands. im not that fast of a mover when it comes to that stuff. i dont really like just fwb. but me and cody held hands twice and he kissed me goodbye. we were maybe gonna hang out tonight. but we haven't talked yet.
i sat him down and we talked about it all through .. he said he does like me, HONESTLY, and he does want to be with me but right now is not a good time. he's always busy with work and snowmobiling and he just got a new dog he has to train for hunting .. so he's really busy. and i dont kno if thats his nice way of lettin me down easily .. or if come spring things really work out. like last night was SOO much fun. like you dont even know .. i loved it. and i think he thought so to. but then he didnt call today like he said .. i just cant tell what he wants ..
so do you think if we talk and stuff and hang out and everything .. do you think it would be a dumb idea to sit and wait till spring for him? i dont wanna sit and wait if he was easily lettin me down and i just dont know it .. ill feel like such an ass .. i dont wanna give up. its nights like last night that makes me feel like theres hope .. so i dont give up .. even if i should.
but dennie and justin might go out. so i think it'd be awesome if me and dennie (BEST friends) had boyfriends who were best friends .. it would be awesome. for as long as i can remmeber i've HATED my friends boyfriends .. lol ..
any advice would be helpful! thank you in advance <3
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It's obvious you really like this guy but if he isn't sure what he wants right now then you would be wasting your time if you hung around and waited for him.
There's a chance he may turn round and say that yes he does like you and you could get together but in my experience (and this is the part that hurts), when a man says he doesn't have time for a girlfriend, it tends to be a nice let down. Now, I don't know this guy so I can't say that this is definitely the case here but if he really liked you, he would MAKE time for you. If you had a guy you really really liked, there's no way you'd let the things he's mentioned stand in your way.
You need to resign yourself to moving on and finding a guy who will treat you as well as you deserve. And until then, you need to tell him that by acting the way he did with you that night, he's giving you misleading signals and he needs to stop.
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