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boy trouble
ok i like this guy. me and him made out last friday. he likes me and i like him. he asked me out but i said no at first because i liked this otehr guy as well and he new that. well i decide that i wanted to be wit him so i called him a few days later and he said he didnt want a gf after thinking aobut it. that really sucked for me because i useally get attached to guys if i kiss them. so i was a little upset. me and him are still good friends we flirt a lot and hang out. but hes a little shy so its hard somtimes to like flirt with him becaus ei flirt with other guys too. but today he looked so cute, lol! and i just think to myself that i made such a mistake by saying no. im happy me and him are friends but skool year is almost over and i wont talk to him for like the whole sumer and i will really miss him alot. and i just wish there was something to do. i just hate myself for saying no at first. what should i do? im upset and i like him and he likes me and i just dont no how to feel?
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hello! I am Super PurplePudgyPenguin, here to save the day! -cape flies and smacks her in the face- Heehee, excuse that. Anyways, before I chase you away with my total insanity, time to get down to buisness. It sounds to me like this guy and you are pretty tight. You two sound closer than close can be. It's so sweet to hear. If he said that he didn't want a girlfriend, it basically means, he needs time. He may not know how to take rejection, and this is the way his heart is healing, or how he is adapting to it. Just hang out with him, flirt with him, and maybe, just maybe, he'll start to warm up to you like a boyfriend should. Then you should ask him out again. Tell him how much you love him, how hurt you felt when he turned you down. If this guy is the right one, he cant possibly say no to that. If he does, by chance, turn you down again, then remain friends and dont go any further than that until he's ready to. You can date other guys when you stay just friends and you never know, the next guy that comes along might be your knight in shining armor after all.
Well, I truly hope I helped you out. If not, there are other advice-givers that'll be more than happy to answer your question, WAY better than what I can come up with. Take care, hun! I hope my advice as been of use and not just bathroom reading material (heehee, that's what one of my friends calls it but she's a dorkus ^^). Byez!!!
Luvs,
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i know you feel bad about saying no, but maybe if you keep hanging out with him and talking to him and flirting, he'll get the idea that maybe he'd be happier with a girlfriend like you.. just show him that you want him to be your boyfriend .. if not then you guys will be friends but that's better than nothing right?
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