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i want to hang out w/ *him*
so theres this guy that i really like, we go to the same school, we hang out with the same people, and we only have one class together. when i told him i liked him he pretty much said he doesnt like "like that", but we are still pretty good friends. recently, i've been wanting to hang out with him.. as friends.. no pressure. so i'll just drop a hint like "we should hang out this weekend if you're not doing anything" and everytime he'll be like "definately.. i'm not doing anything" and then we dont talk about it anymore. its soo stupid. i mean, its not like i'm gonna make a move on him. which is what i think he's afraid of and that will just be too weird for him since were just friends. i wanna tell him this but i dont know how. should i just be like "yeah we never hang out outside of school.. whats up with that?" or what? i dont know! give me hints.. how do you get him to want to hang out with me? were only in 8th grade so its not like we can do much unless both of us are wanting to and its not just one sided.. what should i say to him?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I think that you should tell him that both of you keep talking about hanging out... BUT IT NEVER HAPPENS! So the next time he or you say that, set a time and place, don't say we should someday, don't know when, but someday, because it probably won't happen, set a permanent date and time. Don't be too obsessed with it. Just go with a flow. Be yourself while you're with him.
Hope all works out:D
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