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sorry if this is long..
hi...im 16/f, here's the problem...i just broke up with my bf and i know i have love him over the past 1 year and 4 months but last month it was different...
bcoz when i was with him in that 1 yr and 4 months i was like a robot, whatever he says i do,whatever he like me to do i do it...i know hes very controlling guy, and he really get jealous easily...
but i know he loves me and i love him...i was just blind at that time and last month i woke up from that and i broke with him last month and he always ask me to come back to him and he will do everything...
and i came back to him but its not the same anymore, my love for him is not there... we were on and off...and just now i decided to end everything coz i know in the future i will broke up with him...
and now i feel guilty about myself and i felt really bad...i know im gonna miss him but i know i can do it without him...i just feel very bad about breaking up with him...what should i do to get rid of this
emotion that i felt...thanx in advance
i will rate 5's in all answers
-jean-
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If you have feeling for him, you can't just 'rid of them! You have to accept them. You loved/love him and it hurts you to dump him but you have to do what you have to do. And why should you be tied down at 16 anyway?
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Dear Jean,
I have had a past relationship like your's and its very hard not to feel guilty but you have to remember he was the one trying to decide for you, he wasn't letting you just be you and thats whatss important. My ex was the same exact way, I wasn't supposed to have guy friends or nothin' so yeah you jsut have to remember that right now you are yourself, if you dont love him don't go back out with him becuase I mean you shouldn't lead him on like that and you deserve to have alot better then him you shouldn't be controled by someone else good luck
<3 Rae Message me if you need me
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