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ok so theres this guy and we have never talked but i have known him since grade seven, and i have always liked him.now were in grade nine and i think he likes me cuz he has sung to me and he always smiles at me and tries to get my attention. but y wont he ask me out?? is there anyway i could seem like there was no way in hell id reject him?cuz i wouldnt!! and im way too shy to ask him out myself wat should i do?
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well your gonna have to put yourself out there... ya know i used to be shy (i mean really really shy) and finally i woke up one day and ask'd my self "why am i shy?" once i ask'd myself that i wrote down reasons as to why i thought i was shy... such as i didn't want to get hurt... i was afraid of ridicule... and other personal things... once i prioritized that i have never looked back since... i feel that your shyness is hindering both yours and his decision to commit to this relationsip... here are a couple of sublte things you could do to make him sort of realize that your interested... because lets be honest we're guys and HA darnit all if we don't screw everything known to man up if the opportunity is given to us... so you have to kind of show him that YEA you are interested... ok here a couple things i look for when i talk to girls.... 1.) first off TALK TO HIM... its hard to carry on a conversation when he is the only one talking... trust me i KNOW i have been on both ends its very depressing... 2.)LAUGH AT THE THINGS HE SAYS... there is nothing more comforting to a dude when we say something funny and in return we get nothing less than a hearty laugh... trust me thats dang sexy... 3.) DON't be afraid to touch him... now im not saying hang all over him... but amid conversation don't be afraid to touch him maybe when your laughing just kind of rest your arm on him for a BRIEF second... trust me it makes us guys feel wanted when a girl touches us (AT LEAST I DO)... 4.) ok almost done ... ASK him to hangout on your own time... trust me this is HARD!!... but it works... and 9 out of 10 he will say yes... even like a movie or something... but don't come out and say "HEY LETS HANGOUT"... actually that might work LOL... but ask him "HEY have you seen this movie yet" "oh you haven't well ya wanna go" trust me i suckered a girl into that trap once before HA HA...but anyway just gets SOME PERSONAL TIME thats the number one thing PERSONAL TIME no matter how you acomplish it .... PERSONAL TIME... ha ha im gonna pound that point home.... PERSONAL TIME...and the last thing i have to say is DON't BE SHY trust me i used to be down that road and now i regret every minute i was...because honestly it sux and i certainly hope that you realize that being shy is difficult
.... I HOPE THIS HELPED
PIECE OUT
-kev
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