so im falling for my best guy freind. he knows everything about me and we are the greatest freinds. i would be devestated if there was ever a time that him and i didnt talk or werent as close as we are now. but latlely ive been having feelings towards him. i really like love him. and i mean i dont know if he likes me in that way back. he flirts with me all the time. but he flirts with everyone. how should i let him know without risking my freindship with him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Thursday January 12 2006, 9:49 pm: These are the toughest relationships and it's so hard. Two of my best friends went out with each other and they were also best friends, well they broke up like 3-4 weeks later and they hated each other and it caused so much drama. Now, they also loved each other as friends and talked a lot, but the outcome turned out horrible. Now they are trying to fix their relationship and they're trying to be nice to each other but they always find something to argue about. Make sure you think this whole thing through because you don't want that to happen to you. I'm not trying to scare you off or anything and it might not happen that way, but it's always better to think a little ahead of the situation. This happens a lot to people, but since he's a big flirt with everyone he might not even notice. Flirting can come out as just being frienldly or more than that and in your situation I'm not sure what it would be. Give him little hints that you have more feelings for him and see if he cathes on. Later on, when you think it's the right time, tell him. If he doesn't have those feelings back then you both might feel real okward. You shouldn't hold your feelings inside, so you should tell him sometime. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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