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i am dating a guy i like him but, a lot of trust worthy friends say he is cheating on me. He has done it before what to do
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I would try to get the proof for yourself. Some people that are jeleous or just really want the boy, or just hate him would say that. Like if your friend like secretly likes him then they would say that maybe to get him, but I kind of would like skip that option if they are like your best friends. Maybe they actually know something, you never know! But if they don't have true proof, then don't dump him quite yet...but don't like scream at your friends for even saying that because if it turns out that they are right, you will feel horibble! If he has done it before that is already a clue that he might be cheating on you or that there is a posibility. He might have changed, so give him a chance. You should ask him, he will give you the excuse that it isn't true and that you shouldn't believe what they say, but you should tell him that you need to know, and that you have been hearing it from your friends. If he gets angrey at you then there is a clue that it is one of the extremes. That means that either he is cheating on you big time or he deffinately isn't and he is very offended that you would even ask that question. Also talk to his friends (try the ones you know well, so that it isn't awkward) and talk to them about it. You could even,(if you don't feel weird about going behind his back, or if it is getting desperate.)three-way your boyfriend without his knowing and have his friend(s) talk to him about it on the phone. If your boyfriend is a showoff then he should brag about it or you!haha! Remember that he "supposedly" loves you so give him some slack unless you find some evidance. If you do find something that pionts toward the fact that he is cheating on you, then ask him about it and give him a chance to explain. Don't explode on him, becuase you could be wrong. I hope that I helped, and remeber that my inbox is always open.
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sorry that this is so long! haha!
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