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16/f Okay, there's this guy who I kinda liked a week ago. Rumor had it that he had a mondo crush on me and thought that I was a hottie (only thing is that he's about 2 inches shorter than I) We talked on the phone almost every night and by the end of the week I REALLY liked him; however, over the past 3 days or so he's been ignoring me. I thought that it might be because he was sick and had the flu (because that's what his away message had said for the last 3 days) but now he's better... he took me off his top 8 on myspace, he took my quotes off his info, and he won't call me anymore... I have the feeling that he's over me and the only reason he was being nice was so that I'd fall for him. I want him to like me again; how do I do that?
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Well, first off, you have to ask yourself if you actually want him to like you again. If he can change his mind so fast, what's to say that he's not going to repeat this change later on in your relationship with him. Also, when you talked on the phone all the time, who was the one that called? Did he always call you? If so, then maybe in the past three days he was testing you, to see whether you cared enough to call or not. Guys can play mind games as well, and he might think that you've done something wrong because you've done nothing at all (i.e. not called him).
On the actual issue of making him like you; Call him up, talk to him. He has to like you for some reason...other than physically, so be around him and remind him just what he liked about you. Practice the art of flirting =P. But brace yourself for the fact that he MAY have moved on, and he may not be willing to revert to the past.
Either way, i hope things work out for you. If the situation changes, let me know and maybe this will shed some light on the problem.
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