Okay I went out with this one guy. I broke up with him and I just realized I still like him btw his name is Wes. But, I don't know if he likes me back? I have another boyfriend and he likes me alot but when ever I'm around him I fell like all he wants is sex or some action. I don't know if that's what he wants or is it that I think that about every guy???! Well I don't know if I should break up with my current boyfriend to go out with Wes. Should I tell me Please
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? deathwillcome answered Thursday January 5 2006, 7:22 pm: Okay, so you still like Wes, but you only think that he wants sex or something else, right? Well, ask him. I know it sounds awkward, or wrong, but it is the only posible action. If you think about it, you can't know for sure if that is atually what he wants unless you actually ask. I know that you still can't tell if he is telling the truth, but if he doesn't tell the truth to you then he won't tell anyone else the truth. Also, if you continue to come back to your boyfriends after breaking up with them, or after they break up with you then they will take advantage of you. You can't always run back because they will assume that you will always come back, and they won't really care if they break up with you, or if you break up with them. They will just say "She'll be back." You don't want to be known as that. If you continue to dump boys no one will want to go out with you in fear that you will just dump them after the first week, or after they get boring. I know that that sounds wrong, but that is what people do, and think because they think that people are stuck in a cycle where they continue to do the same things over and over. If you don't trust other boys, they won't be able to trust you. Trust is a two-way thing. If you do something to lose someone's trust then it is sometimes hard to trust them. I know that this is a long answer, but I really don't want to mess you up with the wrong side of things. I guess what I am trying to tell you is that I can't decide for you, because i don't know this boy or you. I can't tell you that the choice that you made or make is correct or wrong. All that I can truely say is that you should follow your heart, and not think with it. I hope that I helped, and remember that my inbox is always open. You don't have rate, but it would be nice.Thanks.
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No matter what you chose, remember that no one is perfect and that no matter what happens, I want you to learn from it. If he breaks your heart, learn to be more carefull with the boys you pick. If you two grow up and get married, learn that you should take chances more often. But I think that you should think about your boyfriend that you are already going out with. You don't want to break his heart do you? I mean, I don't want to judge you or anything, but that would be a mean thing to do....But it is your choice...I hope that I helped, whatever you decide. [ deathwillcome's advice column | Ask deathwillcome A Question ]
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