My boyfriend, let's call him John, likes me more than I like him. Not only that, but I think I love different people besides him. I listened to my heart and was going to break up with him--but then he got me this amazing necklace, really expensive. Now I feel like a tool or something if I break up with him, what do I do?
This is a very problematic situation. It would be fine had he not given you the necklace. If you really just need someone new you can tell him that and give the necklace back. He can return it if he wants. You'd probably sound guilty if you kept it and dumped him later also. Or you can make yourself completely not appealing so he'll dump you. Either one will work, it just depends. He definitely has to go though, because if you like someone else or are uncomfortable around him, it's not a good relationship.
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