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Okay, well..my b/f is grounded from the computer and hes been calling me..well, just to talk. and he called me one night, and my phone was about to die..so i had to go..and he got on his sisters sn today and said he'll call me later..so i went upstairs and charged my phone..it took forever..so i just went to the basement and watched skeleton key with my family..and wen the movie was over..it was 9:30 (to late to call him) and i went upstairs, i had 5 missed calls!! all from him, and he doesnt call me very much at all..just wen he tells me he will..and he just wanted to talk! he told me ealier today..omg i feel so bad..idk what he is thinking..he knows im not ignoring him..but please..just guys..advice!! and pleasse dont be smart wit your answers! thanks..i rate-
Dear Missed Caller,
These are very difficult situations. Although he may be feeling neglect, there is nothing you can do about it. Once you can get a hold of him, give him a call or e-mail to tell him you really meant to call him but you were away. He'll understand if he's a true boyfriend. Don't worry.
- Schwartz Support
Is it weird that I love my daddy more than my mom?
No smartass comments!
Dear Is This Weird,
Of course it's not weird. Family relationships are odd ones, and sometimes the mom may be more likable or the dad may be. Deep down you like each one differently, but one relationship shows the most. Just remember that they're both your parents and it's okay to like whoever you choose. It's your personal preference.
- Schwartz Support
Ok so I have this freind and she' s one of my really really good freinds. She has been annoying me like crazy for various reasons. Like when I go to kiss a guy she just stares at me, when we go to someone's house she's so clingy. Then, she has a Wbshots pasge and she has this really slutty picture of her. Her boob is hanging and and she drew over it but you can still tell. And she took all these pics of her with this ugly look on her face and she thinks she's all hot.See she used to have this one freind and she ditched her so she is really clinging with me and one day me teacher was liek you and your sidekick adn she got all mad now she's all mean and I'm so annoyed wiht her. I don't know what to do. And also I have alot of clothes but you know not like a ton and she has sooo much and eveyrhting I buy she buys and I am such an independent person I don't want to be like her and she is annoying me! So please help me with how I can deal with this crap!
Dear Driving Me Crazy,
You have a common and yet horrible situation on your hands. You need to figure out something about your relationship first, however. If she is worth keeping as a friend, you have to find a new relationship with her. Only do things you have in common or stay away from clothes and shopping together. You need to just take the problem and make sure it doesn't occur. If she's not a valued friend, just tell her you don't want to talk to her any more or slowly lose touch.
- Schwartz Support
Dear Schwartz Support,
My boyfriend, let's call him John, likes me more than I like him. Not only that, but I think I love different people besides him. I listened to my heart and was going to break up with him--but then he got me this amazing necklace, really expensive. Now I feel like a tool or something if I break up with him, what do I do?
- Love Problem
Dear Love Problem,
This is a very problematic situation. It would be fine had he not given you the necklace. If you really just need someone new you can tell him that and give the necklace back. He can return it if he wants. You'd probably sound guilty if you kept it and dumped him later also. Or you can make yourself completely not appealing so he'll dump you. Either one will work, it just depends. He definitely has to go though, because if you like someone else or are uncomfortable around him, it's not a good relationship.
- Schwartz Support