Ok so my ex-boyfriend Matt was a sweetie and I really actually felt that I loved him and he said that he hasn't felt that way about any one before and we are both 13. The thing is tho that he dumped me for his ex-girl friend because he thought that I was cheating on him with his friend. But I wasnt and I was so upset that he broke up with me so I wanted to get back at him so I did by going out with his best frinend..but I braly like this guy you know I miss Matt very much even tho he put my heart though the worst I still love him with all of it! but I dont wanna love him cuz I know he will hurt me agian but its hurting not being with him! What do I do?? Plz help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 2:04 am: I think you should talk to his best friend that is if you're still going out with him, and tell him "I dont like you..I CANT like you becuase I still have feelings for Matt" see what he says, and have him talk to Matt and convince him that you weren't cheating on him. After he believes you two, you can maybe get back together.
Also see if he's doing the same and only going out with his ex-gf because he thought you were going out with someone else. this is really confusing but I hope I helped. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
3frances answered Monday December 26 2005, 9:47 pm: Wow. i dont know what to tell you, i felt bad, nobody was answering your Q.
but hun,
its called a crush.
well if matt's friend went out with you then you guys really should have gotton to know each other better right? if u did i reccomend asking matt's friend who we are gonna call...Eli (just easier if we call him sumthin). ok? well i recomend asking "eli" to ask matt if he still likes you. maybe he still has feelings for his ex though. just like u still have feelings for him. anyway if he dosnt still have feelings for you:
Im sorry.
and dont obbsess, thier are plenty other lobbies in the pot. (analogy dont take littaraly) and you dont need to go after one guy, who knows maybe you will find a better guy!?!??! just, you know, date around till you meet someone you like. ok? hope everything works out for you! happy New Year!
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