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Question Posted Sunday December 25 2005, 9:49 pm

SO..
im 15/f

me and my cousin always hang out together! she's awesome lOl. but anyways she used to like this one guy and i thought he was cute. well she didnt exactly like him anymore she moved on..but she still thought the kid was hott! and my littler cousin (her brother) is like 13? and he talks to this kid. the kid is in 9th grade and my cuzin is also but im in 10th grade. well i was like OH MY GOSH that kid is really hott! i said that to my cousins. and then my 13 yr old cousin was talking to him on the computer and was like yeah my cousin likes you. and i was like NOO how can i like him? i dont even know him! and then he is like just kidding she just thinks your hott. and he is like who is she? and my cousin told him..but of course he doesnt know me since we go to different schools.. and the kid is like dont know her..never seen her..never heard of her. well this made me feel GREAT. even tho i knew he didnt know who i was. but then anyways this kid is like well next time that she sees me tell her to come up to me and tell her who she is. SO next time i see him what am i suppose to say? hi im the girl that thinks your hott. it will be soo embarassing! and im pretty shy.so that doesnt help. and then later that night my 13 year old cousin was still talking to him and was like yeah my sister (his sister my cousin)thinks your really hott and he is like man whats up with your family..first your cousin and now your sister? whats next your grandpa??! so then i felT SOOOO unblievebly stupid!! now i for sure dont wanna go up to him next time i see him..i will feel so stupid! but then again maybe he will think im cute or something? I DONT KNOW!! i mean i wanna hang out with him or something..or at least try and talk to him..let him know i exist!! but then i only see him at their schools hockey games..and there isnt any going on over break! and my cousin that goes to school with him is really shy too and wont ask to hang out with him..because she doesnt really talk to him either..and i dont wanna talk to him on AIM because im not good with talking on the computer..so please dont suggest that..but yeah so i cant throw a party or anything! ugh this is soo horrible and confusing :( you dont even know..this kid is the funniest..the cutest! and he doesnt even know i exist..all the girls are over him and i guess he is goin to this party that a girl is throwin from his schoool. what do you think i should do!?

SORRY SO LONG!! i really am!
but thanks for answering
i really appreciate it!


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xomegaroni answered Monday December 26 2005, 4:40 pm:
sorry for the late response!! i've been busy shopping haha =)

definately don't feel stupid. it's totally normal to think he's hott & what not & he probably understands that & was jk. guys do that allllll the time. i know this one kid that thought this girl was hott that he met one time & he imed like my whole school trying to figure out her s/n. see what i mean?? many people do stuff like that so it's good that you were able to control yourself haha =) if your cousin knows his friends, then you guys could all hang out. isn't there a movie theatre?? mall?? dinner?? bowling?? minature golfing?? anything basically. you could IM him, even if you're aren't that great at talking on the computer, & juss say hey lets hang out er w/e. juss somehow find ways that you guys are at the same place & you guys could hang out. juss be yourself. try going to the party!!

-hope that helped!♥

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