Question Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 8:44 pm
ok so there's this guy..and i like him sooooo much! we went out but then like 2 days later he broke up with me..and i thought i was upset but wasnt really until i realized that i really loved him.. because as we started hanging out more and more i liked him more and more each time and when we hang out he can get a little mean.. like he'll say stuff then pretend hes joking..like he's called me a whore and he told me my ceeto's were gonna go straight to my ass..? then out of nowhere decides he wants to hook up with me.. but the other nigh ti i/m him and i told him i didnt like the fact that he says those kinda things to me and he got like really mad and told my friends he hated me and that he never wanted to talk to me or see me ever again and this hurt me soo bad because he told me he would never ever hate me and like the night before he told my friend that he loved me and he told alot of other people he loved me and now i tried talking to him and he wont listen and i told him i was sorry and that i know i screwed everything up and crap.. but he still hasnt answered me.. and no matter how much he hates me..there will always be a little part of me that still loves him and that will never change..how can i just forget about him? how do i stop loving him?
Additional info, added Thursday December 22 2005, 10:46 pm: ok soo i tried talking to him tongiht and he told me to leave him alone and i cant stop crying.. if i hate him.. why is it so hard to get over him?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Imperialistic answered Friday December 23 2005, 9:38 am: Honey, this boy is bad news. You were honest with him and told him to stop calling you a whore. Is this what your mistake was? Is asking for respect so wrong?
In my opinion, he should be crying over you because you didn't screw up anything, -he- did.
You just need to use your normal 'get over him' routine. Icecream, friends, whatever it takes. Just give yourself some time and find someone who really appreciates you. [ Imperialistic's advice column | Ask Imperialistic A Question ]
LM answered Thursday December 22 2005, 9:13 pm: well, it all depends on how serious he was when he was telling you these things and making fun of you. If you know he was kidding, he's probably deserves another chance. But otherwise, I'd just let it go. You don't want to be in a relationship where someone hates you, do you? Think: is he really worth it?
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