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pressure
well i hav this bf, his name is damian, and we have been going out for about 1 month now and i like him and all but he can be very pushy, and always seems to want to kiss me, and i dont mean just a plain kiss (that would be ok), he always wants to make out, in front of everyone, and i dont think that i am ready for that i feel very pressured, but i dont know how to let him know how i feel. i dont know what to do, i feel lost. i feel this is taking a toll on our relationship. help me please. any advice would be great. thanks a bunch!
-gwyneth
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gwyneth, its very important to tell your bf how your feeling.either talk to him in person, write a letter, aim,phone, idk just somehow get it across to him how your feeling..tell it like it is, thats the only way to go. Im sure he will respect your feelings and boundaries and back off ..if he doesnt, then there is a problem. Its important to keep communication open and talk to him..im sure he wouldnt want to make you feel pressured. so talk to him..and he should ease up and goes at your pace, whatever that may be...and if he doesnt get it, then he needs to go because i know how it feels to be pressured into moving too quickly..it definately is not good.
-meliss
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