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14/m i am in a 7 month relationship with a girl tht ive known for like 10 years are parents are friends but they dont know about us. the only problem is that i dont think the realationship is working out and i kinda like anothe girl that goes to my school (current gf is 1 year younger) WHAT DO I DO
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Try to work out your relationship if you can. Talk to your girlfriend, and see if you can't fix what's wrong. Your relationship might be fixed by simply talking things out. If you show her the respect of letting her help in trying to make the relationship better, you might keep her as a girlfriend, or at least as a good friend.
However, if the problem can't be fixed, or if you don't like her as much as you used to, then the best thing to do is break up with her and pursue this other relationship that you are interested in. It's most fair to the girl that you are with now to let her know if the relationship is not working out. If it is truly not working out, then the longer you draw it out, the worse it will be when you try to break up with her later.
Plus, since you're still young, it is a very good thing to date around right now. Don't tie yourself down to one girl. If you don't think that the girl you're with is right for you, then that's ok! This is the time in your life when you should be getting to know lots of different girls. You didn't say how many girls you've dated, but if this is your first girlfriend, then you will really be doing yourself a favor by dating around some. You have to get to know what is out there, and what is available to you, before you can really make a commitment to just one.
To be fair to your current girlfriend, you shouldn't start to pursue a relationship with this new girl until the one you are in is over. If you do end the relationship, then start talking to this new girl and see where it goes!
Good luck!
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