Question Posted Saturday December 10 2005, 12:39 pm
there is this guy in my grade (8th) who is always flirting with me and my friend. he is cute, but he has a girlfriend of like a year who is in 9th grade. in the class that we all have together my friend and i will sit on the couch in the room and put our feet up on it. he will come over and just sit on our feet and grind his buttbone into my legs. he has sat in my lap, too (against my will). a couple of years ago, he liked me and i kinda liked him. we went to a banquet at a church camp together, but we never were boyfriend/girlfriend. we have been pretty good friends since, but he keeps flirting with me. he and my friend argue all the time, but it is just messing around not seriously. he flirts with other girls so much! his girlfriend is close to my friend, and his girlfriend flirts with other guys behind his back, too. why does he flirt so much and keep sitting on us? everyone says he and his gf wouldn't last but some people say they are just staying together to prove us wrong...they don't really like eachother. does he like me? what should i do? i'll rate 5's! :):)
EvilCheshire answered Saturday December 10 2005, 2:04 pm: Guys around that age will flirt with whoever they can, if they get positive responses and giggling girls it boosts their egos and makes them feel like Mr. HotShot and they'll continue to do so.
As far as him liking you, he may just be being overly friendly without any sort of intentions of getting with you. Then again, maybe he is interested, when it comes to this sort of thing it's hard to read what people are exactly thinking or what their intentions are... so the only way to find out truly is to ask.
Honestly if he's flirting with other girls and he has a girlfriend I wouldn't want to be involved with him. That's a bad sign already.
I've found that people date a lot in highschool just for the status, so it may be true that him and his girlfriend don't like eachother, they're just with eachother to say.. "I date such and such." It's sad that people will get together for reasons like that and end up flirting still with anyone else they can.. but that's highschool. [ EvilCheshire's advice column | Ask EvilCheshire A Question ]
shake answered Saturday December 10 2005, 1:38 pm: I think you're overlooking the situation.
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