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i no hes using me.
but like.
i like him alot
and i dont want him to break up with me.
i no that sounds dumb.
but yeah
and i dont want to dumb him.
what should i do??
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I know you don't want to dump him, but I'll say this again. Tell him that you aren't ready to have sex. He should respect you decision. If he doesn't, he ISN'T WORTH YOUR TIME.
You want him to like you, and you probably are thinking that having sex will make him like you.
WRONG.
It will let him know that you are vulnerable to be used, and that's it. HE'S USING YOU! There is no point in having sex with someone who is USING YOU FOR YOUR BODY AND WHO DOESN'T RESPECT YOUR FEELINGS, YOUR HEART.
He likes your body. He wants your body. But he doesn't want what really matters: your heart.
I'm sorry to say this, but he doesn't care about you. He cares about himself. He wants the sex. Does he care if you want it? No. If something happened to you, he probably wouldn't give a care. I know it sounds harsh, but that's how it seems.
He knows you like him, and he knows that you will do anything he wants you to do. He knows that he has control, and giving in will simply tell him that you will do anything he wants you to do.
You have control of your life. Don't get into the habit of letting people get away with using you. Don't let him tell you what you can and cannot do. It's not his body, it's YOURS. Your body is too precious to give to somebody who is taking advantage of it, and who doesn't respect it. If you were meant to be used and told what you can and cannot do, we wouldn't have been given free will.
You say you don't want to dump him, even though you know he's using you. He isn't worth your time. YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER!
I know it's not what you want to hear, but advice isn't always like that. You're not always going to hear what you want to. If you did, it wouldn't be advice.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥Manders
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