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Ok i've known this one kid a really really long time and when i was littler i use to like him then the feelings went away! Well now i really like him more than anything. and i dont want to tell him because my parents would bother me about it. The other day i seen him and his girlfriend. I know i should b happy since he's really close to me, but everytime he talks about her i just walk away and ignore him. I want him to know how i feel but i dont know how to tell him. What should i do?
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I know this might not be what you wanna hear but it's probably best. Okay I understand how you feel with liking someone who has a girlfriend because a lot of people have been through it in the past, and I know it can be hurtful and make you feel jelous when he talks about her.. but you've just gotta realize that he doesn't know how you feel so he doesn't know it's bothering you. If it really gets to you that bad I would honestly say to talk to him because it's not good to hold your feelings in because it would stop you two from getting even closer. And if it's constantly bother you, I don't know about you but I couldn't take that. What I would do is simply explain to him that you know you two have known eachother for a long time and are really close and your not trying to freak him out or anything but you have to let him know how you feel, say that you arn't meaning to interrupt or cause anything for him and his girlfriend to break up but you just couldn't hold things in anymore. Make it clear to him that you don't want him to feel weird around you or for you two to become any less close. Also, If you really like him you shouldn't let your parents teasing you bother you. Just remember one thing, be careful on if your sure this is what you want, because I've been in similar situations with hooking up with your best friend and it might often ruien the friendship and the two people feel ockword around eachother or talking to them. Just make sure he's what you want, make sure your willing to take the risk of going out with him and then breaking up and not being friends or staying friends and always wondering what could've happened if you would've told him your feelings. Lastly remember if you don't take risks your holding yourself back on the future. Hope I helped, Samantha xO.
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