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Hi im from forest hills New Hampshire, im 14 and a female. Today i noticed your advice column and suddenly it came to me I had a question. You see last saturday night i was with this boy and he wanted me to do somethings i felt uncomfterable with. He kept asking me to suck his penis i was a little shocked, i have never seen a real penis befrore and I wasnt sure what to say. I told him i would have to think about and im going to see him again on friday night What do i do? Also i was wondering have you ever donesomething you regret with a guy? and is it bad to look at porn?
dazed and confused thanks mariah <3
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Well for one do NOT everrr do anything you are uncomfortable with, recently something simalar was happening to me but no one was asking me to do anything they were just doing things that made me feel uncomfortable, all you need to do is simply say no if it's not what you want. The first time you do things with a guy you want to be in a relationship and be comefortbale with it. Don't just do something because you feel like you have to because you neverrr have to. My best advice would depend on 2 things, one on how uncomfortable it made you feel and how much he tried to talk you into it because you don't want things to go too far. For example if you kept saying no and he was trying to pressure you.. things could go too far and you may possibly be forced to do something by him if you know what I mean. So I would reccomend not going into a secluded area away from people just alone with him. Next, yes I have done things I regret with guys but don't get me wrong I'm not a slut or anything, just everyone has there regrets. Lastly no it's perfectly normal to look at porn most people do, theres nothing wrong with it. Hope I helped, Samantha Ox
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