Question Posted Saturday December 3 2005, 10:01 am
okay, so i took your advice and here's what happened... his girlfriend got mad at him, told him that she wanted to break up...he got mad at me and said i needed to stay away from her. then i tried to make them understand by talking to them but they just got annoyed...hum, so now i'm really mad but i don't know why. it might have something to do with knowing that my best friend is desperate for love and she's manipulative...am i wrong? i don't know what to do anymore...everything i do just makes more people mad. like, i told you about me quitting my job and everything...but what really sucks is my managers wouldn't let me quit...they told me they'd keep scheduling me to work and we could figure out what was going on...so yesterday i ended up working until 7. my best friend's girlfriend worked until 8. my best friend wanted my girlfriend to go to one of our school dances but it started at 7:30. so he asked me to switch shifts with her but i wouldn't because i had to go out and get some stuff for my chemistry project. (are you still with me? don't wanna confuse you too much...) she ended up telling the managers a big lie about how her parents are away and the only way she was getting home was if she left at 7. so the managers took my shift and switched it with her. as angry as i am, i can't really do anything. doesn't my life just suck? i figure if i could just get away from the two of them, i'd be okay. the bad part is all my friends are friends with my best friend and work with his girlfriend...what do i do now?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? KaTiE_LyNn answered Sunday December 4 2005, 11:39 am: geez. that really is a big problem. you have to ask yourself if it's all worth it. could you manage without your best friend? i'm sure you'd still be able to hang out with your friends because your current best friend is apparently always with his girlfriend. try to find new friends in the process. i'm not saying dump your old friends, i'm saying find someone else to lean on. also, go out and look for another job. it isn't fair that you have to be put in that sort of position. keep your job in the meantime, because you don't want to go broke, but start applying for other jobs. [ KaTiE_LyNn's advice column | Ask KaTiE_LyNn A Question ]
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