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true love..
girl falls in love with guy
guy falls in love with girl
girl goes to college
he decides to try his best to let her go there with some freedom
they decide to keep an open relationship
she says she misses him "like crazy"
3 days later, she calls and ends even the dating
she says she can't love him
she says i love you before she gets off the phone
she says he made her really happy and it scared her
she says when she looks in his eyes she knows she loves him
she says when they kiss it scares her
she says nothing about why they can't date eachother..
he said enough in text messages to scare her
he didn't mean to, just wanted her to know what was on his mind
she just wouldn't say anything, give any reasons besides.. i love you, and i can't do that right now
can this really be true love? she wants him to think it was, and make it the reason we can't know eachother well... should drift apart even though we both don't really want to. not see eachother, not talk alot, not kiss...
how is that love? when did love give up on the world?
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well it is ture love she was scared because that she knew she may have wanted to be with him for ever but she just thinks that it is not a good idea for now because she want to finish college
before knowing what she want and she doesnt want to hurt him..... if need more info look up skatingmonkey500 that columnists and i will.
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The problem being described in this situation is completely different from love. The girl is afraid of comittment. For whatever reason she is terrified. This is without a doubt really hurting the guy. I think both people love each other very much. I think the guy should talk to the girl about her fears and give her time to figure things out. This happens more often than you would think and usually it ends with the girl regretting breaking up with the guy for the rest of her life and wondering what it could have been like if she had stayed with him. Fear of committment is not a good reason for a breakup at all. It's something that can be talked through. It ends with MUCH more heartache and pain than pretty much any kind of breakup ESPECIALLY when love is involved because there is so much regret. I hope I helped and good luck. <3
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The girl is scared that she will fall to hard. She knows she loves him but she doesn't want to accept that with love comes the chance of being hurt. It's love but it's being held back from it's potential. She has to learn to trust that she won't get hurt. The guy can only wait and try to understand.
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