Question Posted Thursday November 24 2005, 10:29 pm
im really upset. i really like this guy, theres 2 problems. he smokes and my parents found out and we got in a big fight bout it, and its just not the same between me and my parents, bcuz im just so mad at them and it just sucks and on wednesday, my friend asked him if me and him were ever goin to go out and he said no bcuz hes so busy wokin on his band, and that makes me so upset, i really like him, in a way i love him, he treats me great and makes me feel so good, hes always putting his hands around me and alwys just doing stuff that makes me like him morea nd more each day, but now im just so upset about him saying me and him wont go out, i just start crying wen i start to think about it, i just like him so much, nad it hurt so badly i dont no wat to do to make me feel better, i dont if i should still like him or is i still try to get hooked up with him, im so confused and hurt.
King answered Friday November 25 2005, 1:03 am: there's so many things wrong with this...
1. the kid smokes... why is it an issue, you're probably both too young to do it, thats why. which means you have more important things to be worryin about.
2. don't be mad at your parents. they're doing their job, and that's keeping their little girl away from a kid who smokes.
3. sneak around. if this guy's so special (which i doubt) wait until you're both old enough to not have to worry about your parents. if you don't plan on bein together that long, then just skip the bullshit and start to get over it now. [ King's advice column | Ask King A Question ]
caden answered Friday November 25 2005, 12:51 am: ok. what you should do is become a friend to him, maybe you could help him with homework, or with his band. Just be there for him when he is troubled. Maybe when he is done working on his band, he'll ask you out. Also, this is what I would tell everyone, just be yourself. You dont need to change to get a guy's attention.
--caden-- [ caden's advice column | Ask caden A Question ]
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