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I'm questioning my boyfriend..
I've been with my current boyfriend for a while, just over a year, and lately I've been questioning whether I want to be with him or not. I've developed a crush on our friend, and whenever I'm in class with him and my boyfriend isn't there I have trouble trying not to flirt with him. I'm so attracted to him that I can't help but think that he knows..
Last night I had a dream that I broke up with my current boyfriend to go out with my crush, but while I was going out with my crush my boyfriend was still around and it was weird, plus in the dream I kept breaking out into hysterical sobs, and when I woke up from the dream I felt horrible.
To make matters worse, there is this lowerclassman in our school that likes my crush, and not only am I jealous that she gets his attention (even though he doesnt like her back the same way) I feel compelled to try and get them together so that I can make him happy (if its what he really wants), and to cover up my crush for him. Plus, I get to talk to him alot more often.
I'm so confused about this crush deal.. I don't know if its some weird thing that I feel for a little while and it won't last, or if I should break up with my current boyfriend and pursue my crush.
(p.s.- im 17, and a female)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
if you've been going out with your current boyfriend for a year it would be best not to jepardize what yall have together. this feeling should where off in a little while (probably just a fling)
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short answer: shame on you.
long answer: i think what you're doing is a terrible thing. don't leave your bf because you have a crush on some guy (a friend no less) leave him because he deserves better than a gf that would do that after a year.
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