Question Posted Thursday November 24 2005, 7:31 pm
I have a boyfriend and I like him so much but, we don't talk. Its sad it really is. People say "Well why don't you just talk to him" like its sooo easy. But, its not. I'm so shy and I can't just talk to him. People keep interferring and telling him things and I just can't stand that we can't even talk to eachother. Were both shy that much it obvious but, does anyone have any advice as to what I should do or any advice on how I could be more comfortable talking to him? Thanks in advance. :)
hellokitty answered Friday November 25 2005, 4:51 pm: Aww HuNny I Was In Da SaME SItUatIon!! AND i hates it so much when people tell me to do things with him or to talk to him more WHEN they dont even understand how wierd it was ! sO WHAT i would do if i was you is hang out with him more ALONE! go to the movies or mall or one of your houses and just have fun. get to know each other better. GOOD LUCK!! [ hellokitty's advice column | Ask hellokitty A Question ]
hotrod answered Friday November 25 2005, 1:58 am: just one question. if your both so shy how did you guys start dating. im really outgoing and i cant even ask a guy out. mad props. but what u need to do is be confident.if ur dating then keep the relationship going. what he wants is for you to b a gf adn what you want is for him to b a bf. right. well gf/bf talk to eachother. bout everything. so you need to start talkign before your love is ended before it really started. [ hotrod's advice column | Ask hotrod A Question ]
TheWiseDairyCow answered Friday November 25 2005, 1:20 am: try being random... This always helps me.. I always just say the newest thing in my head, if its funny or just stupid, and sometimes it can break the ice.. Depending on his personality and yours.. If he has a good sense of humor then breaking the ice shouldnt be too hard... Dont talk about all that boring stuff.. Talk about how cute he is or what you love about him.. and it may help him feel more comfortable around you [ TheWiseDairyCow's advice column | Ask TheWiseDairyCow A Question ]
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