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well i have only had 3 boyfriends my whole entire life...and im 15! i had a bf in 5th 6th and 7th and after that...guys didnt really ask me out anymore...i dont know what im doing wrong bc like i play sports im pretty smart and my mom always said i was pretty, but no boys come my way anymore...so i dont understand what the deal is...idn if its just bc people consider me as a nice innocent girl rather than a wild one...but i dont know how to get boys to like me...
signed
lonely girl
thanks so much!!!
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Your situation is SO common! And yes, it doesn't matter what generation you are from, during the teen years, guys will be interested in the wild girls. But don't be mistaken by guys actually LIKING them. The guys are LEARNING on them.
Have you ever heard that expression, "There are girls you DATE and girls you MARRY"?
This comment is SO true!
These girls that seem so popular and seem like they have so many guys after them, will wake up one day and realize how empty they feel because they will realize they were being used.
Keep yourself "innocent" and one day, you will be able to have any guy you want.
I don't know if you know Zach and Becka or not, but neither one of them have had a ton of bf/gfs and look how happy they are together. I'm 41 yrs old and even I admire their relationship. They have so much respect for each other. And I'm so proud of them and if you are ever around them for even a second, you can tell they really love each other. Just be patient because you will meet a guy that is just like YOU and your relationship will be that much more special.
You're doing the right thing - stay in sports - do well in school and be happy without a guy in your life and the right guy will see this and appreciate you and want to be part of your life.
Let me know if this helps and you can always im me.
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