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cheaters
hey brianna.. this is a troubled reader.. my friend knows you and is really good friends with you so i thought i would give this a try..
i love this guy.. and i know i do.. so does every one else. i honestly think he knows too, but im not sure. we were dating for a while but decided to break it off, for some bullshit reasons and he broke my heart. now he likes my best friends older sister. since im younger than him i cant blame him for wanting an older girl. but he knows i love him and he knows this other girl doesnt. what do you think was going thru his mind when he did this to me?
-- in a *bit* of a problem..
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well... i obviously know who this is writing to me.. its my best friend of course.. and i know what its like. but listen.. theres a lot more to it, i just found out that he liked her too last night b/c they were talking for like an hour and it was on speakerphone and i was in the room the whole time. she doesnt like him, and he knows that. she already knew that he liked her cuz he told her like a week or so ago. he asked her exactly this "but in your eyes its just friends with us right?" and she said yes. he knows her feelings toward him.. shes likes flirting with him (she likes flirting with everyone) and she likes hanging out with him because they get along so well. but shes still in love with her ex.
for you my dear... i dont know what he was thinking. it does sound pretty stupid right, i mean he likes the girl he KNOWS doesnt like him, and he doesnt like the girl that he KNOWS loves him. pretty messed up. but there really is no explanation or answer for them. its simply how he feels. he cant help who he likes, or who hes attracted to. no one can. you cant blame him if it isnt you that he has feelings for. trust me, i know you, and i know your an amazing person, and i know hes missing out. he just hasnt realized it yet. time tells everything.. and trust me, i know how much you dont want to wait, b/c i dont think anyone likes waiting for stuff like this, but you need to try your hardest to get over him. me and you both know every little game he plays, and how he acts and lies. its just him. your wonderful and he doesnt deserve you. right now hes not looking for any type of relationship that has meaning at all. i dont even think he wants a relationship at all, nor is he ready for one. relationships are filled with MEANING... and trust, and so many more things.. i dont think hes ready for that type of commitment, because once again we know how he likes having multiple girls, never just one. it will take a special girl to make him settle down. and im not saying your not that special girl, because you may be - but only time will tell. for now, you just have to accept the fact that hes not specifically looking for the "right" girl.. hes just trying to have a good time with all of the wrong ones. trust me darlin, your better than that. yall are both at different points in your life.. you want a meaningful relationship, and he doesnt want a relationship at all. its his loss, and he will realize that. i <3 you lu lu and i hope i helped..
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