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hey ok well i am 15 and i am in love with ym best friends little sister. i have known her my entire life and i have never thought of her as more then just like a litte sister i guess but her bro is like rele protective of her how do i ask her out without making him pissed and risk hurting my relationship with either of them or theirs with eachother
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Please don't use the word "love" because that's way overused. What made you start thinking of her as more than a sister? Are you sure that's a good reason, not something like "She got hot."? Also, if she is too young, then I would wait a few years and see if you still like her. If you are going to ask her out now, you better be almost positive she will say yes. You don't want to hurt your and your friend's relationship over a rejection. If you still are going to take action, first talk to your friend. I know guys don't really talk, but translate this into guy language and see how it works: "I kind of like your sister, and I'm thinking of asking her out and getting to know her better. I hope that's alright with you, which it should be because you know I wouldn't treat her badly or hurt her in any way. Even if it's weird at first, you will get used to it. Don't worry." If he says he doesn't want you to, just ask his reasons and come up with comebacks. Ex. "It's just too weird." "But it doesn't have to be. Just don't make it that way. It's not like all 3 of us will have to hang out together." Then as for asking her out, do it however you want. If she thinks it's weird, explain that you've been trying to hide your feelings for her but couldn't any longer, or say something you like about her, or whatever else you can think of. If you do all that, and the relationships are still ruined between you and him, and him and her, then try to forget about her. Break up and save your friendship and their family bond, because both of those are more important than you and her going out. Hope I helped!
~Meags
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