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diana =(
im really confused..i just keep getting this weird feeling that my boyfriend doesn't really like me as much as he says he does..like online and on the phone he talks to me a wicked lot and he tells me he loves me a wicked lot..but like when im with him at school and like outside and stuff he like neverr talks to me..and i think thats really sad because he's in my majors and in my homeroom ( for the second year in a row) and afterr school he leave to go on his bus before i go home..and he just waves bye and leaves..like he never hugs me or anything when he leaves..and like everytime i wanna do something, he says he wants to too..but like the day before we were gunna do something he makes up an excuse so we can't go..like his mom said no because he had to watch his little brother..and i was talking to this kid and he sent me this convo between him and my boyfriend..and it was like ohh dancing w. her was horrible and im going to break up with her soon...and when i was talkin to my boyfriend about it he was all \"ohh you kno i love you and im not guna break up with you \" but like now im just not really positive about that..like how can i believe that afterr what he said to his friend..and im just really confused now..and i just like feel like i can\'t break up with him..because i've liked him for overr a yearr..and thats anotherr thing thats confusing...because it seems like in our realationship..he can control everything because he thinks i'll never break up with hi..and i seriously don\'t think i could do it..because it would just be like ruining my life..well i think it would...please help me
** you probably can tell who this is..but w.e =)
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wow seemsz like you have a load on yr hands riqht now but since you asked me this is what i think:
maybe the reason he doesn't hug you or talk to you in public is because he is shy or doesn't know what to do and about the excuse dont jump to conclusions and think that he is just making excuses to not chill with you because if you do and the excuse he came up with is really true then you`d feel quilty and not know what to say. just talk to him, tell him how you feel and let him know how shady he`s being.
now speaking from experience, do not believe what his friends tell you bad about it cause most the time it is all a lie. if he says he loves you then he must love you but since you dont feel like he does i suggest that you tell him " if you love meh then show me " and that way you know. but like my saying goes " he/she doesnt have to write something to know how much he/she feels about you" maybe thats just his way of showing how much he loves you cause not everyone is the same.
as for you not being able to break up with him i understand but you cant show him your weak side because that's probably why he thinks he's incontrol of the relationship. scare him a couple of times show him that you can break up with him [ dont accually do so ] cant isnt the problem the problem is that you wont. somethings arent just meant to be you can't be tied down to something that simply isn't working out. get your b/f talk to him and if he doesnt listen there is nothing else you can do .. be strong .. i hope i have addressed your question if not im really sorry.
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