Question Posted Saturday November 5 2005, 12:20 pm
my boyfriend & i both lived in st. bernard until the wrath of katrina came. he is in mobile & staying there until february. i am here on the westbank (by new orleans, if you were wondering). we have been going out for about 4 months, but we've been best friends for almost a year. we both love/loved each other. BUT, i kind of have a super duper crush on 2 guys in my class. should i a.) try to make it work with my boyfriend. (how..if you choose that.) b.) take a break with my boyfriend & try to go out with the crushes. or c.) wait until i find out the crushes like me (100%) then do something about the boyfriend? .. oh and 1 more thing- if you choose b or c, how do i break up with him but still remain good friends?
so sorry it was long..
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Teza answered Saturday November 5 2005, 12:28 pm: You don't even know what you want, so how am I supposed to know? Lol, anyways. Look, if you love your boyfriend you would try to make it work with him. Being best friends and being boyfriend and girlfriend is sometimes diffucult. What exactly is going on between you guys? Is it that he isn't near, or the fact you guys argue? If you just want to stay friends with him then break it off. Just tell him you don't think that it's not working out or whatever you want to say. Make sure that this is something you want to do and that later you won't be comming back to him if the other guys don't like you. You could also try and take a break. Flirt with the other guys and talk to them and see if they like you. If they do and you feel like you want to go out with one of them, then go for it. It's really your choice and make sure you feel like it's the right thing to do. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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