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Yes he knows i am sad and confused and he says he is sorry and he didnt mean to confuse me. Thats why he doesnt tell me he misses me orloves me b/c he doesnt want me to read into it. I believe he cares about my feelings and thats why he left b/c he didnt want to "lead me on" he said he doesnt know why he left. I think he got scared and he runs when he is scard. As for the he doesnt say things or do things comment--its like this-he is the type of person who will tell it as it is-so i believe if he didnt love me he wouldnt tell me,or if he didnt miss me he wouldnt tell me-but when i ask he says alittle with a smile. He will say no if he had to but certain things im afraid he cant say no to...I dont really talk to any one and he was my life--and that was part of the issue-he felt trapped-and i realize i was being selfish and wanted him to myself....Do i love him or need him--well to be honest both.but i lovehim more than i need him does that make sense? any more advice from this response?
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Well, then, as I said, you could probably go out and find an activity you can do without him but with other people. In this specific case, I'd suggest being a volunteer - it would give you emotional feedback from other people (knowing you're helping and all) as well as a boost of self-esteem (for the same reason. Plus, it would put you in contact with other people.
Other things, like art or gym or drama classes, going back to school, even, could also help you. You'd meet people, you could accomplish yourself in something that is exterior to your couple or your family, and, again, it would boost your confidence.
Your fiance will probably love you more if you're happier, more confident and generally radiating. Plus, you'd give him more space, you'd find new interests and, while you meet new people, you won't need him as much.
Think of your love life as the solar system. You are the sun. Your fiance might be the Earth (where the life is), but there are other planets circling around the sun, too. And anything too close to the sun dies...
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