Question Posted Saturday October 29 2005, 12:37 am
hey i have a problem. me and this girl was together for almost 9 months but she broke up wit me because she said i changed but i didnt i have a couple medical conditions that took over and i let it. she says she misses what we had and i was wonderin that after i get all my help and if i show her that i am still the same person i was that she fell in love wit do u think she will let me go back out wit her?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? All_4_Him_4eva answered Saturday October 29 2005, 1:38 am: Honestly, I think it's possible, but not totally advisable. Sorry for the tough truth, but it will take some time to get the experience and worry off of your mind, and hers. She very well might take you back. BUT it may eat at you both, causing you both to wonder how honest you're being to your partner, as well as with yourself. Right now, I think your main priority should be getting back on your feet. After that, take some time to just live. Life isn't all girls. In fact, girls, until you're straight set, should be near the end of your list. But get done what must get done. And after that, live at least a little while by yourself, just enjoying life and friends and what God has given you. Then, you should either be able to look around and set your eyes honestly on girls, or already have some wonderful young ladies who you could see yourself with. Work on building your relationship with yourself and, mainly, with God. Then work on building your relationships with girls. Hope I Helped, Good Luck, and I'll be Praying, ~Cory~ [ All_4_Him_4eva's advice column | Ask All_4_Him_4eva A Question ]
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