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ok today, i started cutting. im getting really stressed out. i've cut 4 times today. my parents are yelling at me for literally ever single thing i do, i have no freedom, im getting an overload of homework at school, my math grade is dropping, the boy im madly in love with is always telling me he loves me online, but never talks to me in school. i have a boyfriend but i dont like him at all. ppl told me that he really really REALLY LOVES me and when he asked me out in person i paniced and freaked and said yes. and i dont want to break his heart by breaking up with him but i dont like him at all. also my best friend is really really popular and she doesnt talk to me anymore (im semi-popular, my boyfriend is popular, im a cheerleader, everyone says im pretty, but i have so many problems) there is so much drama at my school to, its like everywhere i got i cant get away from drama. i hate it and to "resolve" i started cutting. i promised myself id never do it and i know its bad, but i couldnt help it..i just started. no one knows about all the stuff i go through and i cant tell my parents cause they're gonna start yelling at me even more.. i dont know what to do! i feel so alone and lost..like no one else has problems like i do. i hate it. please help me
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Parents- my parents are the same way. My mother every single thing I do I get yelled at or told it's not good enough. It sucks, I know. But I just talk to my friends and try to forget about them or take it out on a pillow or a wall or something other than yourself =/ Talk to your friends. They'll always be there.
Boy- I would suggest breaking up with your boyfriend. I mean even though he really loves you, you don't feel the same. And it wouldn't be fair for you and for him. Just tell him that you don't feel that spark anymore and you'd be better off just being friends. =/ and with the boy always telling you he loves you, i'd talk to him online and ask him whats up. Just be like," You never talk to me at school or anything.. whats up?" see whats going on with that. Maybe whenever he says " love you " he means as a friend. I don't know.
Friends- Yes, I hate drama too. Our schools flooded with it. What schools not? You have to just push it out of the way. This year I just thought to myself " ugh who cares anymore? Im going to be mature and not give a crap and ignore it all " and i've been so much happier. YOu just got to realize people are going to talk and are going to say things. You just have to realize whose your friend and whose not and to stop being friends with those people who aren't cause they'll be of no good. Talk to your best friend. Ask her whats the matter. Tell her you feel like you guys aren't friends anymore and that bothers you.
And also.. people DO have problems like you do. Example, me. My parents always yell at me for everything, can't talk to them without arguing ( me and my mother argue every single day, no lie. ) and theres all the drama and everything.. I just never resolved to cutting. I count on my friends to be there for me, and also my pillow at home for the occasional whacking. You just got to learn other ways to get it all out, instead of on yourself. Just try talking to your friends, they're there for you, or I might suggest the school counseler. Sometimes I just ignore the situation/problem and think of something else that makes me happy ( like when I'm getting yelled at ) and whenever they're done, I feel fine and I just go and watch TV or somehing. I just don't let it bother me anymore. If you need to talk more, IM me at MELii x MARiiE. Im usually always on. I hope you get better and I hope everything works out for you. =]
love,
MELii
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