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Question Posted Wednesday October 26 2005, 9:14 pm

some people don't like it when i be myself...but they get all scared when i shut up thinking i'm sick or something. i don't know what to do- i don't like shutting up- i can't express what i think. i want to make me and other people happy. what do i do???

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goldenphoenix answered Friday October 28 2005, 6:56 pm:
is this cheryl?

anyway, i think you should be yourself..but a less obnoxious form of yourself (not so open and a little less outgoing) you know what i mean? find a medium..it ALWAYS works..they'll see that you've changed.

of COURSE you don't like shutting up, but be conservative when you speak and dont say too much or talk it too far and cross the line..just relax and act appealing.

act around your friends like you would around a new person that you want to impress...i know that they say if you can't be yourself around your friends, then they aren't really your friends..but that isn't always true...

if this is cheryl::
CHERYL!! we told you that we like it better when you are like you because we feel comfortable and we don't want to you change..just cut back a LITTLE bit (i'm NOT being sarcastic) but we ALL love you no matter what
and don't go to debakey!!

-the one and only

HOPE THAT HELPED!
please give me feedback

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